I like normal people.
This is a really salient point though—before we were even having this conversation around #MeToo, that’s exactly what normal, non-rapist men thought: that they were normal and thus, by extension, most of the dudes they know are probably pretty normal. And not rapists. And the ones I know, at least, have mostly been horrified in the ensuing discussion, while finding out their bros’ real opinions on women. It was such a silent shameful part of our culture for so long that I genuinely do believe most normal guys really had no idea how bad it is.